Monday 1st
December
Women on boats…
Rachel (Aus) is exceptional - she lives on a small boat with her husband and two home-schooled teenage children |
At the family celebration lunch on Sunday, I sat next to
Nevil, who was mightily impressed with our sailing exploits. Well, to be exact, with MY sailing exploits. I looked at him a bit askance – my sailing
exploits are not the stuff of legend.
But what he is impressed with is the fact that I am on the boat at
all. He is English and has lots of
friends here and in the UK who are passionate about mucking around in
boats. They buy a yacht, meet a glorious
woman, plan to sail off into the blue.
Maybe not in that order, but that sort of scenario. One of his friends has set off in this
fashion three times and has come back, a solo sailor, looking a bit
crushed. And none of the others has
managed to convince a wife or girlfriend to embark on a long-term sailing adventure.
Chantal was a wonderful sailor-wife until, after six years, she was filled with a desperate need to go HOME (Switzerland) |
Years ago one of my friends had a relationship with a very
handsome man we called Sailor. He came
and went. Sometimes he would be around
for months at a time, then he would vanish, out to sea. He did take her down the Huon for the odd
weekend on his lovely yacht, and she professed to enjoy it very much. He would look at her darkly and say, Women say they love sailing but they don’t,
not really.
Marian (Holland) is a redoubtable sailor and has sailed around the worlds several times, with Jan |
And indeed there is a large number of solo sailors who would
rather have a companion. They look at me
longingly…it is very strange to be so desirable, at my age and stage of life…
Nicky was a wonderful guest on 2XS and didn't find life aboard difficult |
Time is rushing on
by…December already!!
Way back when…in
1973…someone took a photo of my sisters, my mother, my new-ish very first baby
Nicky and me.
Jacqui, Gina, baby Nicole, Monique, Marguerite |
We tried to
recreate this on Saturday 29th November 2014…
Jacqui, Gina, Monique, Nicky, Marguerite |